All they ever lead to are a buddy, a “player” or a man just “passing through” on his way to the “real” love of his life. And you need to stop taking them… right now… if you want to inspire his affection and commitment.

(MIND)

You shine during a discussion and you have a lot in common. You impress a man and make him enjoy your company, but you may feel disappointed to learn that he feels no CHEMISTRY.

That’s because when you try to connect with a man through his mind, he doesn’t FEEL a thing!

Oh, he may “enjoy being with you,” but he just never gets TOUCHED by you in a deep, connected, emotional sense.

He never feels like he’s about to lose control of himself and fall in love.

Wrong Road #2: The Physical Road (BODY)

Despite what a lot of women think, men do not become attached through sex, even if it’s fabulous. We’ve all been sold on the idea that a woman who likes sex and is “good” in bed is ALL IMPORTANT to a man.

And it’s not. It’s just a small part of the whole picture for him.

All it DOES give you is a “sex buddy,” not a partner, not a boyfriend, not a husband. You’ll also end up with a broken heart because you’ll get attached and he won’t want anything “real” with you.

Wrong Road #3: The Spiritual Road (SPIRIT)

Women who value their spiritual beliefs and want to be with a man who SHARES their values and spiritual interest.

And it’s SO EASY to mistake the friendship that can grow between two people who worship in the same way, who care about the same things, for a passionate, emotional bond.

And yet, all that will get you – at best – is a deep friendship. He’ll tell everyone what a great woman you are, but he won’t be dreaming about you night after night or longing to hold you in his arms.

The Right Way To Inspire His Devotion: Connecting Through His Heart!

In order to connect with a man’s heart so he’ll feel compelled to be with you, worship and adore you the way you deserve, you have to feel YOUR own heart first. Once he feels your heart, he’ll open up his, creating a heart-to-heart connection that begins with expressing your feelings and being your most feminine, authentic self.

Most women buy into the lie that “men don’t like emotions.” But the truth is, a man LOVES emotions. He yearns for a woman who can help him feel his own feelings and therefore allow him to be himself. If you’re not in touch with your feelings, he won’t feel safe expressing his.

The trick is to learn exactly HOW to express your feelings – in words that will draw a man closer in an amazing way. The usual way we express our feelings comes out sounding either stifled, inauthentic or critical to a man, and does nothing to connect with his heart.

I can’t wait to watch this movie!! WOW it looks so good! – action, adventure, love and monkeys what more can you ask for 🙂 –

I so wanna be Jane by the way . Tarzan looks hot hehe..

3 of my favorite actors are in this one 😉  Samuel L. Jackson, he has been in so many movies! Christoph Waltz, we know from Django and many others. Djimon Hounsou – uh I loved him in Blood Diamond 😉

Release date: July 1, 2016

Director: David Yates

Screenwriters: Stephen Sommers, Stuart Beattie

Starring: Alexander Skarsgård, Margot Robbie, Samuel L. Jackson, Christoph Waltz, Djimon Hounsou

Genre: Action, Adventure

Plot Summary:

It has been years since the man once known as Tarzan (Skarsgård) left the jungles of Africa behind for a gentrified life as John Clayton III, Lord Greystoke, with his beloved wife, Jane (Robbie) at his side. Now, he has been invited back to the Congo to serve as a trade emissary of Parliament, unaware that he is a pawn in a deadly convergence of greed and revenge, masterminded by the Belgian, Captain Leon Rom (Waltz). But those behind the murderous plot have no idea what they are about to unleash.

Yo peeps,

This Summerhouse weekend was great.

I was at my summerhouse at Møns klint, a beautiful area in Denmark 😉 as you can see.

Sometimes its just a good idea to get away, a change of scenery is awesome.

We had such a good time, relaxing, acting like tourists, eating good food and watching chick flicks all weekend!! of course the occasional boy-talk sneaked in.. hahaha 😉

By the way did you notice the picture with my muddy boots?  – I wanted to go of tracking into the woods instead of following the safe route that was made for tourists at Møns Klint. I stepped into some mud that had a quicksand effect, I was sinking down and almost couldn’t get out of the mud! my girls was laughing hysterical while watching me fight the mud. It is SO typical me, I never want to abide by any rules and I wanted to to go on my own adventures .. hahaha – luckily I was wearing my solid Timberland boots, they saved me.

Good friends, beautiful scenery do you need anything else? 😉 Not really!

Its Saturday today and the sun is peaking out, and that makes me so happy. Now I am off to the gym or should i run outside, difficult decisions – tough life! haha..

Much Love

Hey Guys,

I am listening to some Rihanna on this wonderful Friday – getting into the weekend mode!

I wanted to share this one with you – one of my favorites, it is old, but because the video has a bitchies – girl-power vibe!! I can’t seem to get enough!

Enjoy!! 😀 ..

hahaha typical me of course anything with girl-power and I am ecstatic.

Muaaaaah

I have heard that selfish people live longer, after reading this article, I am thinking maybe its true. Unfortunately I am one of those people that overthink things and I can’t be happy until I know everybody around me, are doing well. Therefore I found this article very useful as a reminder ;)..

Fatigue Syndrome is a word that has begun to be seen and heard more and more in recent years. It is a disease that people can get from prolonged stress. For example,- you have a lot to do at work or in your private life . Yes, you have certainly heard of it. You probably know someone who has suffered from fatigue, or perhaps you might have been affected by it yourself. Unfortunately fatigue is not taken seriously. Some people think it is a made-up disease. But it is very real and often effects high-performing people. A stress expert describes what fatigue really means.

1. Fatigue affects strong people According to Karin Isberg it affects the condition of high performing individuals with ” great inner resources ” . They set high standards for themselves and they also experience demands from the outside. “It takes a strong person to push themselves hard, and keep it going for a long time”. According to brain researcher Agneta Sandström fatigue often affects people with skilled jobs.

2. The fatigue affects caring people Karin Isberg says, – good-hearted people who think about others well-being, they are more prone to fatigue. They feel it is selfish to focus on themselves and they neglect their own needs. She compares it to driving a car without fuel.

3. Fatigue affects those who find it difficult to say NO. Anyone who thinks of others more than themselves and place great demands on themselves, – usually have difficulties with saying NO. They tap all their inner resources before they say NO and then it is to late.

4. Fatigue is not the same as a depression, although fatigue and depression have similarities, there are crucial differences. While depressed people “give up” usually exhausted people feel frustration and anger over life.

5. The way out of exhaustion is to focus on yourself. Give priority to your own well-being! Then fill the internal resources and devote time to yourself – do things that make YOU Happy! It is also good to practice on setting limits, saying no and asking for help. It prevents you from suffering from fatigue. The most important thing is, sleeping properly.

We won’t have the energy to be supportive and help the people we love and care about, if we do not take care of ourselves FIRST.

Remember to LOVE yourself and say NO, when you need to.

MUCH LOVE 😉